Blogger’s dillema.

I am getting really pissed off with my own blog, THIS BLOG here, has totally lost its essence, the reason for having a blog is to be able to voice what u think, share your views n thoughts rite?
But nowadays, it seems like what ever u do, what ever u say, there is always something to be picked on about.

I can’t write my thoughts my views or anything at all. The only thing i can do is still 忍。and write bout what i ate n what i watched.

KennySia decided to just be a public entertainer. But i just cant do it like him, because this is not my profession, i dun have to try so hard to please everyone.

When i write bout happy things, none of the people i know who reads my post cares to drop a comment ,only the real public anonymous people comments- those are REAL comments .
Just look at kenny’s post about his visit to sandakan. He just made his trip sounded funny and people are getting so defensive over it, When people get defensive, its because they are insecure. Just like when an African gets pissed when a white guy says ” i dun like this shirt, because its black” and u can be almost sure to see the African shop assistant making an ugly face. getting all sensitive unrelevantly.

When i blog bout not so nice things, the not so nice things transformed so bad with the comments, sometimes the comments gets so bad that its as if i’ve done criminal acts. And there is just no point ,NO POINT at all to try to explain to these ppl, those commentators who knows me are not going to listen, or get the bloggers point, Their POINT is just to trash the blogger , release their vented frustration in a big go, on the blogger, YES ON US bloggers.

Its human psychology that its naturally more difficult to accept n celebrate others victory joy n happiness, BUT is always easier or more satisfying to pin point others mistakes n imperfections. Its an embedded way to make oneself feels higher/greater than the others.

For example, girl A secretly feels that a classmate’s “B” shoes are so cool n stylish, but she decided to keep it to herself, because by complimenting B it would mean that B is greater (in shoe sense).

BUT, but its totally okay for the A to compliments Angelina Jolie if the wears that same shoes as B, because of course , it shows that A has equivalent taste as Angelina.

It will also be satisfying for A to gossip when one day B turns up wearing ALL BRIGHT PINK.

This real identity blogger status is gonna be turned off soon, Not because i am afraid to let people know what i think, not because i dare not appear with my real skin. Its because there is just too many unnessesary fuss to be taken on, too many ridiculous people pin pointing .. and its so tiring to explain, not because they will never get it, its because they DONT WANT TO. thats when the saying comes, Patience is virtue and Silence is golden.

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